Marriage is full of all kinds of adjustments. People grow. Circumstances change.
If you feel you are just going through the motions, this could be what’s happening:
5. No personal aspirations. This may be coupled with addictions.
4. Suspecting there are strings attached whenever your spouse is kind.
3. Undermining good deeds/words from your spouse.
2. Becoming defensive whenever he/she wants to talk about the relationship, and
1. Not listening.
A common theory is to give what you want to receive, but wouldn’t that make it all about you? Why not, receive what your spouse is giving, and just say, ‘thank you,’ in your own way.
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